Mother's Day : Batrisyia

01:51 AM, Monday, May 19, 2008 .. Posted in SyamaSyama .. 9 comments .. Link
When I picked Batrisyia from school the other day, Batrisyia's teacher told me that she wrote something in Batrisyia's message book. It is something about the reading session is cancelled the next day because the kids have a field trip.

That night when I wanted to start with Batrisyia's reading and spelling and maths work, I told Batrisyia to bring to me her bag.

But what Sya did was she first gave me only the reading book.

I said i want your whole bag with everything in it.

Then she brought me her spelling sheet. Without her blue message book.

I said I want your bag Batrisyia.

Then she brought me her bag but still without her blue message book.

Now where is your blue book Batrisyia?

She immediately said, there is nothing new in the book. Nothing. Mrs. Carla didn't write anything.

Huh? Why is she acting defensive?

"Batrisyia", I said, giving her a really angry look narrowing her eyes on her. You don't want to give me this look. Ever! "Mrs. Carla just told me she wrote something for me. Bring me the blue book now!"

I could almost swear Sya turned white when I said this.

Ho ho ho ho. Look who is caught with her pants down. Naughty little Sya was caught lying to me.

Then she guiltily gave me the book. "Stand there." I said. I slowly read the message and frowned just for the drama. Of course the message still say about canceling the reading session.

I turned to Sya and asked her, "What did you do?"

She slowly told me that at school she used Zoe's (her classmate) pencil and Mrs.Carla told her to use her own. Eh? That's all. I think she must have thought that since Mrs. Carla told her to use her own pencil (probably in a stern tone), I would be angry at her. "Why didn't you use your own pencil?" I asked. She said, in my own words, she is lazy to get her own pencil.

"Why did you lie to me then?" I asked her this because the lying part is my greater concern.

No answer. But can you imagine her face? The scared guilty face.

"Really Batrisyia, using Zoe's pencil is nothing compared to lying to me." And suffice to say she got a lecture of lying to me and something that all mothers will found out about their children lying.

Mothers have 100 eyes and millions of senses.

Macam-macam.

sya


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05:08 PM, Monday, May 19, 2008 .. Posted by rotidua
I told the same to Najwa. About mothers' eyes and senses.

Last friday I caught Najwa too. That girl can really make up stories! Berdaya imaginasi juga makcik sorang tuh tapi tak cukup bagus utk tipu Ibu dia. When I asked why she lied, she said "Nanti Ibu marah".



hmmm

06:58 AM, Tuesday, May 20, 2008 .. Posted by lollies
we must do something such that they are not afraid to tell us the truth. one way I can think of is that when they do tell the truth kita praise them for telling the truth.

tapi first they must tell the truth. how do we encourage this? any ideas?

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08:10 AM, Tuesday, May 20, 2008 .. Posted by abi
itu kena banyak kali usaha dan usaha. setiap kali dia buat baik, puji. setiap kali dia buat tak elok, tegur. berkali-kali kena buat. tak boleh rasa penat. baru dia ingat. tak boleh ngelat.

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09:52 AM, Tuesday, May 20, 2008 .. Posted by mosh
you want the truth? you can't handle the truth

*taken from this particular movie*

ibu knows best, of course.

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10:02 AM, Tuesday, May 20, 2008 .. Posted by lollies
abi - itulah yang saya sedang cuba dan cuba buat. berat amanah menjaga anak2 ni.

mosh - a few good men ke?

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12:09 PM, Tuesday, May 20, 2008 .. Posted by elisataufik
the thing I'm afraid of is that they get so scared of being scolded that they will start hiding important things from us. Like if somebody did something bad to them or something.. God Forbid.
I dont know how to advice lah. I am struggling with that too, coz my first reaction is to marah. I guess I have to change how I act first kot.

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12:42 PM, Tuesday, May 20, 2008 .. Posted by mosh
yup. a few good men :D

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08:04 AM, Thursday, May 22, 2008 .. Posted by ondeonde
same here, marah first - think later :p

hmmm but last night a bit of achievement that I can teach faeqah in a cool tone..and she gave good respond! legaaa..tapi ya Allah punyalah controlled..ada kena mengena tak dgn entry ni? hehehehe..

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08:45 PM, Thursday, May 22, 2008 .. Posted by lollies
elisa - tulah. nak kena fikir strategy lain ni..supaya mereka tak takut to tell us. and kita pun kena prihatin antara nak marah atau nak laud them for telling the truth. sukar suakar

mosh - terer gak gua

OO - heh heh. ini komen ada kena mengena dengan entry OO jugak ni. he he

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